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Public Speaking Myth #2: Proper English is Not All That Important

 

I heard it with my very own ears. And what's even more distressing is that I heard it uttered by an attendee during a break in a workshop I was giving. When challenged by another student, he cited as proof of his statement the sloppy-to-abominable English heard by us all in our everyday lives.

  • Major political figures who mispronounce common words.

  • Media pundits who love to increase their pundancy by saying "very, very" when one simple "very" serves the purpose perfectly well. If they further transgress and utter "very unique", they slide off my personal list of educated persons. (I'm sure you know that the word unique cannot be modified in any way; the thing being described as "unique" either is one-of-a-kind or it is merely "unusual".)

  • The urge to lengthen words, phases, sentences seems to overwhelm our society, some of which appear to feel that worth of content equals length of content.

    The prevalence of poor spoken and written English does not mitigate the fact that it has an adverse effect, which needs to be considered by those who speak to others in order to get a positive effect.

    People differ in their awareness of word usage and speech patterns. What drives some people batty may leave another person completely untouched--or at least undisturbed. However, there are many listeners who, when they have heard particular grammar errors or awkward syntax, downgrade the value of the message itself.

    It's worth spending some time and energy to learn correct grammar and correct pronunciation. Dictionaries are readily available in print and on line. There are several excellent, easy to read books on English grammar; one of my favorites being, "Between You and I: a little book of bad english", by James Cochrane

    It's worth knowing how to avoid using language that is an affront to educated listeners and which turns them off to the strength of your message. To be considered a successful speaker, you must be adept at capturing the attention of your audience, persuading them to a certain point of view, or rousing them to action.

    To achieve your goal, they must take you seriously.

  • Author: Carole McMichaels
     
    Author Bio:

    Carole McMichaels

    If this is to be a true Bio, it must be in first person singular, so here I am, giving you all my "Singular I's". My life has been long, unconventional, exciting and filled with music, my first love and my first career.

    Were it not for an absence of current rules and regulations, I would not be here at all. You see, my father was my mother's cello teacher--a horrible no-no in today's school world. They were married in the Interlachen Music Camp where my father taught trumpet and conducting.

    As a child I gave many recitals, usually the first half on piano, the last half on violin. I loved it, but would have preferred (though I didn't know it at the time) music written by live people rather than by dead white men. Still my preference.

    A favorite past-time of my four-year's-younger brother and me was to sing rounds a half-step apart. Great ear training for the contemporary music in which I later specialized! Playing hours of orchestral and chamber music--and kick-the-can, swimming, reading and traveling rounded out my childhood activities. A happy childhood!

    As an adult I migrated to New York City where my professional life took different turns. I stopped the violin in favor of accompanying instrumental and vocal recitals. Then, because of injuries, I did a stint as a Broadway dancer--and finally ended up as a classical singer. Working with Leonard Bernstein for his time as conductor of the New York Philharmonic was an exhilarating experience.

    At the time, 12-tone music was the be-all and end-all of the New York music scene; singers who could sing these beasts were few and far between. However, because I had perfect pitch and a strong instrumental background, I had a fertile field for my interests and abilities.

    For variety I sang on cruise ships, did musical comedy, an occasional substitute job as organist in some of the large churches (a total thrill!) Did a bit of folk dancing on Puerto Rican TV, some pretty humorous modeling jobs, and set up the first audio language program in Tehran, Iran.

    I have a lovely daughter, compassionate and creative.

    For the last thirty years I've been a hypnotherapist, working with individuals and presenting workshops on a variety of topics. My passion is teaching!

    Now I specialize in helping performers and public speakers prepare their presentations; using Energy Psychology, we permanently jettison their stage fright. Very interesting and gratifying work!

    And I write.

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