Online dating has become increasingly popular. 1 in 5 people now look for love on the World Wide Web, which has led to a dramatic shift in dating patterns. Almost everyone now knows someone that 'met' their 'special' someone via the internet. And it's really no surprise as there are a plethora of dating sites around. It's quick to join them, it's easy to message someone and because you know they are 'looking', you are speaking to someone that you already know is available.

Dating sites usually offer free sign-up, but then place restrictions on what you can do until you can become a fully fledged member. For instance, they may let you view someone's profile but only allow you to send them a message if you 'sign up'. For people that don't particularly want to pay, there are also free dating sites you can join online. There are also a number of 'communities' you can join which aren't intended specifically for you to date but can often lead to you meeting someone as a result of exchanging messages and 'getting to know' each other.

Advantages Of Online Dating

It's quick to join these sites and you can often join for free initially and then decide if you want to pay for 'full membership'. Free dating sites also exist ( we have a list of them on our website )

If you have commitments at home you don't have to leave the house in order to initially get a feel for whether you would like to pursue things further

It's fun, it's very popular and you can establish if you have things in common before deciding whether to 'meet'.

Disadvantages Of Online Dating

You have to be aware that someone may not be quite as they appear to be. It's easy to hide behind a keyboard and come across as different. This is where you are trusting that person is genuine. Some people even use photos that aren't of them, so be on your guard

On less highly moderated sites, some people can prove to be pests in one way or another. Be very careful about giving your email address or telephone number out until you feel you know them well.

Unlike real life, you are cutting off many senses other than reading the written word ( until you talk on the phone ), so don't rush in or fall head over heels too soon for Mr or Miss 'Cyber' perfect.

Have fun and give it a go. You never know, you could be the next online dating success story waiting to happen.