Have you ever walked up to a girl, said, "Hi" and then just stood there in an awkward moment because you didn't have anything to say? Have you ever said something that you thought was really clever when you approached a woman but after that things went down hill because you couldn't think up something good and original to talk about?

I've found that a lot of people don't realize the importance of story telling when talking to virtually anyone. When you have good conversations with someone, you tell stories back and forth. That's how casual conversations are made.

One way that it might happen is that you bring up a subject. You might ask a question, give a statement or make some type of hook to create intrigue in what you're about to say. For example, you might say something like, "The craziest thing happened to me today" or "Do you remember that girl I met at such and such bar?"

After the initial hook, whoever you are talking to will typically tell a story or give some acknowledgement of what you're talking about. If they don't tell a story, you'll usually lead into a story. When you get finished telling your story, the person you are talking to will typically link something from your story to something that happened to them and then the same thing happens when you link something to their story.

You are in the process known as rapport. You are sharing linked experiences from your life with another person. If the other person doesn't create a link to your story or you don't to theirs, the conversation ends and you must bring up another topic to continue conversing.

When you approach a woman, you're going to have to do the majority of the talking. You just walked up to a stranger and started a conversation. It will take a little while for them to get into your world. You absolutely need to be prepared for this because it will happen. This is absolutely essential.

So, you might as well start off telling stories from the very beginning. Yeah, you can say something about the situation you are in or make a joke about something as the first thing you say. But, you need to have some stories prepared ahead of time so that you don't get caught with nothing to say.

That's right... you need to prepare stories ahead of time. Its great if you can walk up to a girl and just start immediately talking about things, get her interest and maintain for a long period of time. But, what if you run out of things to say and can't think of anything?

You need to have a default thing to say at all times. You need to have a story that you can sit there and talk about that you've prepared ahead of time that will keep her interest while you think of other things to talk and she gets into the talking mood with you.

So, the next question naturally is... what do I talk about? That's a good question. I've found that the absolute best thing to talk about is something that has to do with relationships. Women LOVE to talk about relationships, what they think about them and all the drama and emotions involved in them.

I'll give you an example. And you know what? You can go ahead and use this one when you're talking to the next girl you meet. In fact, after you tell this story, I want you to get back on here and email me and tell me what type of a reaction the girl had when you tell this story. Email me at comments@datethewomenofyourdreams.com and tell me about it.

Here's how the story goes:

"Hey, get this... if you went on a first date, would you expect rose peddles and candle light?"

Wait for her to answer... then say,

"I met this girl at a bar about two weeks ago. We had a pretty good conversation. We talked for about an hour and I got her number. I gave her a call a few days later. She asked me if I wanted to go to her place for dinner. I agreed and ended up showing up the next day for dinner.

When I got there, she had candles lit, romantic music playing and laid out rose peddles all over the dinner table. And guess what she cooked for dinner... she cooked a turkey. Not like turkey slices or sandwiches or something. She cooked an entire turkey.

So, I'm thinking, this girl is crazy. But, I decided to stay and eat anyway. And the meal was pretty good. It was like Thanksgiving all over again. We had stuffing, mashed potatoes and corn. It was crazy.

When we got done eating... I went and sat down on the couch. This girl comes up, sits next to meet, scoots up close to me and then gives me these innocent eyes. I got up and was like, "Hey, it was really nice to meet you... dinner was great... but, I'm sorry, I really have to go" I mean, imagine if I would have done something with her. She'd be stalking me right now... you're not a stalker are you?"

That's the story. Guaranteed to make women interested in what you're saying. Try it, email me and let me know how the story went. Make sure you know the story when you say it, act it out and tell it in details enough to get women to visualize what you're saying. You'll see a dramatic difference.

Great stuff huh? Well, let me tell you something. This little story that I gave you will get you into the game. But, it won't win the game for you. There's a lot more to creating attraction with women than just saying something or telling a story. This will get you in the playing field but you're going to need a little bit more.

You can learn about this stuff inside my book, "Date the Women of Your Dreams". You'll learn all of my favorite techniques for creating attraction with women all the way to getting physical with them.